I have opted to stay away from religion when blogging, simply because it's such a controversial topic. However, that thought process lead me to wonder...why, exactly is it so controversial? I believe that the reason comes down to one word; Denominations.
Of course, there are many religions with their varying denominations, but I think I will tackle Christianity because I know the most about it, I am a Christian, and, because I hear the most complaints about Christianity. Most non-Christians can give a mile long list as to why they do not attend church or partake in religious beliefs. From my personal experience, I can tell you that the most popular reason people give for their non-belief in Christ or not attending church is, "too many hypocritical people attend church and call themselves Christians."
Is their perception of us, as a body of Christians, correct?
Let's dissect Christianity a bit, starting with a bit of biblical history; Christianity started in early B.C, when religious prophets, or, to be exact, rebellious Jewish slaves who were hoping for better days, predicted that there would be a coming of a Savior to Earth. When Jesus finally did arrive and grew into a man, He declared himself the Savior, fulfilling their prophecy. The world slowly learned what Jesus, the son of God, truly stood for. I'm not sure He was what they expected, I know He wasn't, in fact. They expected a king, someone who would eventually rule from the throne. No, instead they got a guy who lived the life of a peasant, who travelled from town to town doing what He did best, and that was speaking about God and loving people. He taught his early followers to simply love God and to love everyone. End somewhat vague, but true history lesson.
So, do most Christians spend their days, doing as Christ did, and simply loving God and loving His people? Keep in mind, there were really no denominations back then, and of course, there were no "Christians". There were Jews, there were Romans. Yes, there were some people who became followers of Christ, but those followers didn't have a bible or a church, or a church family, they simply loved God, believed in Christ as their savior and loved everyone.
How has Christianity changed? We've added denominations, built churches, developed a tithing system, elected preachers or priests and deacons, established personalized bibles based on denominational beliefs, developed a set of rules and doctrines depending on the denominational beliefs, chosen or even started up charities to donate money towards other charities which do everything from mission work to feeding the impoverished to building to new churches.
Mostly good things, really. Christianity has grown, and that was Jesus' goal. But, in all that we have done, have we individually maintained the core beliefs of Christ? Or have we used our denominational differences to build a wall of safety around us?
Love God, believe in Christ our Savior and love everyone.
It's easy to love God, believe in Christ, attend church, pray, give to charities, to love your children and to love and congregate with denominationally like-minded people. As a Christian, though, do you truly love EVERYONE? Have you lost one of the main teachings of Christ? Keep in mind, as I said, He didn't sit on a throne, He very literally traveled around speaking to people, loving them through His words and His actions.
Do you love that grumpy old guy at work? What about the cashier at your local grocery store who is always so slow to ring your groceries? Do you love your neighbor who belongs to a different church? Do you love your daughter's friend who doesn't belong to any church at all? If you said no to any of the above? You're doing it wrong.
What does Christ-like love look like? Is it saying "hi" to someone you pass by as you are bustling along during your busy day? Is it doing your best to smile as you have a pained, light conversation with someone outside of your denomination? Is it throwing a few coins into the hands of a homeless person? No. Nope, I don't think so.
Our churches are absolutely filled with hypocrites, non-believers are correct in their assessment of us. Far too many of us are staying within our comfort zones and loving the people who we choose to love, often shunning others, because loving like-minded people is easier than the latter. We may throw a few hundred dollars towards a charity, but then spend $15,000 on a couple of family trips to Hawaii. We may announce that we are Christians, but then in the same breath, make a derogatory remark about our ex-spouse. It's wrong, and nearly every Christian is guilty of it.
So, what can you do, as one Christian, to make a positive change? First, accept that you are imperfect, but don't accept that you can act like a jerk and then use the whole, "I'm not perfect" scapegoat. How do you go from acting like a Christian to acting Christ-like? Easy. This world, our society, desperately needs more love, more kindness, more compassion. Jesus loved people through His actions and His words, as I said, that is Christ-like love, and ANYbody can do it.
The grumpy old guy at work? He may have suffered a tragic family loss that he cannot get over. Talk to him, show him kindness and love.
The cashier who is slow to ring your groceries? She may be suffering from arthritis and cannot afford the medication to ease her symptoms. Invite her out for coffee sometime and get to know her and her needs, offer your advice and assistance.
That neighbor from another church? He would probably love to come over for a BBQ.
Your daughter's friend who doesn't attend church? She may have never had anyone offer to share the word of Christ or take her to church, do that!
If you are a Christian or have any part of you that believes in a higher power, or that Jesus even existed, please, let the change start with you. Spend some time dissecting your own life, faith and how you treat others, especially those outside your denomination. Think about how you spend your wealth, are you truly giving enough to the needy? Jesus proved that one person truly can change the world. You can do it!